YOU TURN ME ON

Fact: It is harder for women to get in the mood. In case you haven’t noticed, we tend to need more “warming up” than you men, both physically and mentally. And so there are some tips from yours truly on how to turn on a woman.

Tip No. 1 : SKIP THE GOLDRUSH

A lot of men tend to go straight to the “hot spots” and expect women to get turned on right away. No, we don’t work that way. Start by gently rubbing her hair while kissing or rubbing her legs. With this, you will set the mood and without looking desperate to get laid.

Tip No. 2 : GET A LITTLE DIRTY

A bit of dirty talk will help. Some guys don’t talk at all, some talk way too much. You have to find the place in between. Remember, not all compliments are a turn-on. So mix compliments with dirty talk like: “You look so sexy when you do [insert something not-so-obvious here].” She won’t know what you’re doing, but one thing’s for sure: She likes what she’s hearing.

Tip No. 3 : KISS HER DEADLY

Don’t forget there are other places you can kiss other than her lips, lest you appear boring to her. Explore and find which spots she likes being kissed on. The usual places: her neck, ear, and inner thighs; some even like being kissed on the eyes and forehead.

Tip No. 4 : STOP-START TECHNIQUE

No matter how intense the foreplay is, you’ve got to keep in mind: You are a human being, not a robot. It’s okay to gradually stop in the middle of foreplay to tell her how much you love her. Being in touch with a woman’s emotions is very important.

Tip No. 5 : CUDDLE UP

Do you hug her after the act, or are you always in a hurry to put your clothes back on? Do you just turn around and sleep without talking and connecting with her? Don’t.